Hearts as Gold Couples Coaching


Let’s make difference your Strength

There comes a moment in conflict when one can choose to let their walls down, where hearts soften and turn to gold.

Healing is both a softening and a strengthening of one’s heart. Risk is required.

“The chief danger in life is that you may take too many precautions.” — Alfred Adler

Happy couples do not have much more in common than unhappy couples; they simply Move collaboratively through difference.

Sameness is not a reliable predictor of marital success. Difference invites us into the crucible of growth, where we learn to rise above ourselves.

Recommended Books


How To Meditate Pema Chödrön

When Things Fall Apart Pema Chödrön

The Courage to Be Disliked Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga

The Courage to Be Happy Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga

No Mud, No Lotus Thich Nhat Hanh

Passionate Marriage Dr. David Schnarch

Everything Isn’t Terrible Dr. Kathleen Smith

True to You Dr. Kathleen Smith

Evidence-based Methods

Coaching focused on your Desired Outcomes

Let’s begin.